Comments on: 5 Things to Know About Being Friends With an INFJ

By: Joanna B.

Joanna B. — Sat, 09 Dec 2017 22:26:00 +0000

This article contains everything I’ve always wanted to tell people closest to me and never really found proper words 🙂

By: claire richardson

claire richardson — Tue, 18 Oct 2016 19:16:43 +0000

lindsay were so cute

By: Lindsay Jeffs

Lindsay Jeffs — Tue, 18 Oct 2016 17:51:03 +0000

Hey that’s me in the picture you used! That’s so cool!

By: Lindsay Jeffs

Lindsay Jeffs — Tue, 18 Oct 2016 17:47:54 +0000

Hey that’s me in the picture you used!! Haha that’s so cool!

By: jennah2005

jennah2005 — Thu, 13 Oct 2016 13:44:42 +0000

So true, I love this.

By: Rupali Grover

Rupali Grover — Mon, 10 Oct 2016 16:18:59 +0000

There’s a typo. What I meant was ” An INFJ may be blamed (either they blame themselves or someone else blames them). When someone complains about an INFJ being too private, it’s interesting how that same person can’t handle the “unloading” that you need to share.

By: Rupali Grover

Rupali Grover — Mon, 10 Oct 2016 05:49:08 +0000

Thank you for number 4, because some extroverts can easily say “so what if someone uses your information against you? Just open up and don’t care what people think.” An INFJ may be blamed (either they blame themselves or someone else blames them When someone complains about an INFJ being too private, it’s interesting how that same person can’t handle “unloading” that you need to share. Feeling emotionally safe to open up to someone means knowing that the person won’t criticize or shame us for what we tell you. Just be patient. When someone is ready to share more about themselves, they will do it when they are ready. 🙂

By: Joel Saito

Joel Saito — Wed, 05 Oct 2016 07:12:36 +0000

I definitely agree with #5, my strongest friendships are the ones who I spend time with 1 on 1. I use to think people got kind of weird that I wanted to hang out 1 on 1 but I’ve become much more comfortable about it and truly enjoy those long conversations about everything under the sun. I feel like my magic number is 2 or 3 people at once. I feel that I can still have my input heard but I can also wonder off in though if need be and not feel obligated to speak. Over the last few years I’ve spent more time with my younger brother as he is in college now and I feel like we built a stronger friendship because we spent so much time 1 on 1.

Thanks for the cool article, its always nice to hear from fellow INFJs.