Comments on: 10 Ways to Care for the INFJ in Your Life

By: sierra

sierra — Sun, 03 Sep 2017 13:33:00 +0000

In reply to LokiLover. As an INFJ I can attest to the fact that we may not open up/reveal much because when we have in the past it hadn't been valued. Our thoughts and feelings really define us (and we are ultra sensitive) so we tend to keep parts hidden.

By: Glad Munaiseche

Glad Munaiseche — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 16:58:00 +0000

I love poin 6 ? and facing poin 9 now ?

By: VAlerie von Braun

VAlerie von Braun — Sat, 15 Jul 2017 20:58:00 +0000

I think all of these are true for all INFx; at least I (as INFP) can relate very well

By: LokiLover

LokiLover — Sat, 15 Jul 2017 15:24:00 +0000

Number 8 though. I’m an INFP, but one of my best friends is an INFJ, and he’s getting to the stage where he’ll ACTUALLY TALK about what he’s feeling. He’s so good at listening to me and trying to get to know me and how I work and feel and all of that, but he stinks at opening up about himself. I hate the disparity between us. I don’t want to pry either, I know I just gotta wait on his time and be available to listen whenever he does open up, but he’s sooooo sloooooow…

By: Mailis Laos

Mailis Laos — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 12:16:00 +0000

Sure it’s nice and all, but are there really people who would do it for INFJ, and wouldn’t see it as a burden?
Great, touching article, though. Thank you!

By: njguy54

njguy54 — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 02:51:00 +0000

In today’s digital world, letter writing has become a lost art. Some of my fondest memories of people involve the letters I wrote to and received from them. Aside from the pure communication value, writing a letter demands commitment and creativity; when you write to someone you care about, you can’t help but pour your soul into it, even if you aren’t exactly Shakespeare. Email, tweets, Facebook posts and chat just can’t compete.

Here’s hoping that young people rediscover the magic of handwriting, nice pens and stationery. Hey, if they can bring back vinyl records…

By: Jo Nunemaker

Jo Nunemaker — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 01:51:00 +0000

I believe number 8 covers what I was looking for when I began reading the article with the thought, “one of these should read, if you don’t really care how we’re doing, don’t fucking ask.” Having recently had it up the “here” with someone and “slamming a door”, I am grateful that you could sum up how I feel on that particular topic so succinctly and gently. Thank you!