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Personal Stories and Essays by Introverts

It’s easy to feel misunderstood as an introvert. That doesn’t mean you’re alone — and these firsthand stories prove it. Browse all of our anecdotes, essays, and personal stories from introverts below.

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What It Felt Like Growing up as an Overachieving Introvert

As an overachieving introvert, I kept trying to be someone I wasn’t in order to fit into a world I didn’t feel I belonged in.

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Would I Have Been as Successful in College If I Were an Extrovert?

Could I have overcome a lesser high school education, a younger age, and an instinct to socialize at every opportunity if I wasn’t an introvert?

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I Stopped Stressing Over My Family Reunion When I Gave Myself Permission to Do My Own Thing

I didn’t tell myself that I had to take part in every activity, or do something “fun” every day, or spend every waking moment with my family.

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Why a Big Fat Indian Wedding Is a Nightmare for an Introvert Bride

A big fat Indian wedding is all about people, fun, and a show of wealth — which can quickly turn into a nightmare for the bride if she’s an introvert.

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The Extrovert Ideal Isn’t the Only Way of Existing

The only reason they perceive me as antisocial is because they have created a norm for social interaction.

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The ‘Introvert Brand’ Is Taking Over My Life

I wrote a book called “Introverts in the Church,” and now it seems that everything I do has become an introvert punch line.

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I’m an Introvert and I Actually Like Being in the Spotlight

But the high I get from performing doesn’t carry over to other “people” situations.

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For This Introvert, Quiet Moments Are the Best Moments

I wish I could tell her to enjoy those quiet Friday nights in bed with a book — and that being an introvert is perfectly valid.

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This Introvert Carried a Sign at the Women’s March and It Didn’t Go Well

I found myself in a crowd of thousands with a giant, eye-catching sign. And who was attached to that sign? An introvert.

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I Stepped Outside My Comfort Zone and Made a Memory I’ll Never Forget

I stared at the dance floor. Clearly, there was no place for me here. Just coming to this conference was outside my comfort zone.

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