Comments on: 4 Reasons Why INFJs and INTPs Are Highly Compatible with Each Other

By: PC Principal

PC Principal — Mon, 15 Jan 2018 21:22:00 +0000

INTP here… 20… Married with my fuckin hand ._________.

By: Amy Sears

Amy Sears — Fri, 08 Dec 2017 11:24:00 +0000

I’m an INFJ and have been with an INTP for almost four years, and this article is spot on. At first, our different ways of perceiving the world caused clashes as we struggled to understand the other person, but now we have learned to understand each other and it really is enlightening. And he definitely has a weird sense of humour (which I love)!

By: Anna M

Anna M — Wed, 08 Nov 2017 16:29:00 +0000

I am an INFJ married for to an INTP, and from my experience, this article is accurate. From the moment we met, we “got” each other in ways that I have not experienced with anyone else (though I do have a very deep but different type of connection with my INFP daughter.) My husband and I still talk for hours about meaningful and interesting things, and his quirky sense of humor adds much needed laughter and silliness to my more serious personality. I am more social than he, but if I spend too much time with most people, I end up feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, bored or irritated, and must retreat to my cave to regain my sense of centeredness. I experience the opposite with my husband- the more time we spend together, the better we get along. After 28 years I still like him! If combined, INFJs and INTPs only make up 5% of the population, no wonder this type of compatibility is so rare. I feel very fortunate and grateful for my wonderful mate.

By: Joel Kurtinitis

Joel Kurtinitis — Thu, 14 Sep 2017 21:04:00 +0000

Excellent article. INTP married to INFJ, and most everything in here is creepy accurate.

By: Lori Sizemore

Lori Sizemore — Fri, 18 Aug 2017 10:05:00 +0000

I have a 20 year-old INFJ daughter (like me) and a 13 year-old INTP daughter. We’re so similar in a lot of ways (with the younger daughter) but I admire that quiet confidence and analytical thinking in my youngest. It’s so different (but connected) than the way I (and my oldest daughter) look at things.

By: A Kay

A Kay — Sun, 16 Jul 2017 17:09:00 +0000

I’m an INTP, my best friend is an INFJ. I am an extremely introverted person, never could fit in (at school my teachers thought I had Aspergers’). This INFJ is among the very very few people who understood me (to this day it still surprises me). It feels like my mind operates on a specific range of frequencies, she is among a those few people who can tune in. We could talk for hours on random topics that we find interesting. Often times our conversations turn deeply philosophical, then turn very silly just as quickly (most people would find us insane). One of my favorite things about our friendship is that sometimes we don’t even have to talk. We could just hang out and sit silently and read or whatever without feeling awkward. I admire many things in her. She is empathic, passionate, funny, and incredibly smart (she doesn’t realize how smart she is). I know this to be a fact from what I’ve observed.

By: Beth

Beth — Fri, 07 Jul 2017 15:01:00 +0000

My younger sister is an INTP and I’m an INFJ… We’re in our 40’s now, and still spend more time with each other than anyone else. This article is pretty accurate!

By: Ellie Dashwood

Ellie Dashwood — Thu, 22 Jun 2017 04:55:00 +0000

I am an INFJ and I have many super great INTP friends! It’s funny that INFJs and INTPs are rare because I have 2-3 of each type in my close circle of friends. My sister, who is an ENTP, is over run by INFJs and INTPs in her life.

By: Grace @ Heartful Habits

Grace @ Heartful Habits — Mon, 12 Jun 2017 19:04:00 +0000

This is awesome! I’m an INFJ married to an INTP. It’s working well (we’ve been married almost 7 years but together for 13), and what you wrote about being drawn to the opposing perceiving functions especially rang true.

By: Nessie Dot

Nessie Dot — Thu, 08 Jun 2017 16:55:00 +0000

In reply to John. When I first took the online MBTI personality tests from several websites, I scored as either INFJ or as INTJ. After a while I figured out the inconsistencies in the tests and realized that I couldn't really trust the online ones. I had to go out there and search every single introverted type with its traits and then see if they match with my oddness, to see which type I am. That's how I found found out I'm INTP and it immediately hit 'home'. :)