In my experience, the key to getting the most from life as as INFJ is to focus on making as much use of the talents that we’ve been given. In today’s noisy, distracted, uncertain and superficial world, there is a real need for the calmness, wisdom, empathy and depth of thought that INFJ’s have in abundance.

For my entire life I have felt that I just don’t quite fit in on this planet – I even moved (alone) to another continent to try to fit in / find my kin. I’ve been through various trials and tribulations in my younger years / childhood – hell, we all have – spent decades putting it down to a variety of reasons as to why I “am like I am” which I can now see would make perfect sense in the “medical / physchological western world” where there is always a factual answer with data. data, data to back it up. The acceptable answers. But no. Its’ none of that. It’s because I am an INFJ.

I’ve just read the “21 points” and the tears were flowing with me utterly incapable of stopping them.

So, now I’m not alone – how do I connect with others like me? Bearing in mind we are somewhat reserved and protective of our inner selves – how do we reach out authentically?

I live in the East Bay, San Fran area. I’m English.

Is there anyone out there?

Huge hugs and warmth to all.

Me.

I laughed out loud reading this. I took the Myers-Briggs in college, and I wish I was not an INJF.

And that’s enough talking myself up. Thanks for the great article!

trying to prove a falsehood ? the person stated a fact and YOU are trying to rhetorically downsize em only cause you’re jealous of them being one of 1% rare personnalities ?

Me too and finally I understood I am actually an INFJ